Holiday vacations are a funny thing. We plan for them far in advance, look forward to relaxing and getting away from work, and yet, there's that inescapable lingering dread of airport delays and too much family time.


Whether your going somewhere beautiful and far away, visiting family or just staying home, the holidays don't have to be stressful.


1) Unplug


If you're constantly checking your phone, email, Facebook, and Twitter feed you're not really on vacation. Sure a check in once and a while is fine, but being glued to the Internet won't be worth the money you spent on the beachside resort you're inhabiting for the week.


2) Set aside some time to "work"


Okay, so unplugging is great. But after hanging out with family for days, you'll need an excuse to escape. No one should bother you if you have some important work things to check out on your laptop. No need to really do work, just relish the alone time, surf the web, watch an episode of something on Netflix... whatever will clear your mind for the next round of Scrabble and prying questions.


3) Book some alone time


If the work excuse doesn't work on your family, book yourself some quality alone time. Schedule a massage or your favorite relaxing treatment at a local spa or the resort your staying at. Use the time to zone out and decompress. Consider it a holiday present to yourself.


4) Turn your drive into a road trip


Driving to your family this year? Whether they live a few cities or many states away, turn your dreaded drive into a road trip. Rather than just going from point A to point B, take a less direct route and make stops along the way. You'll probably avoid some traffic and even when you do hit gridlock, it'll be less terrible if you're stopping in an hour, rather than five. Use a site like Roadtrippers[1] to find interesting destinations along your route.


5) Schedule a detox day


The worst part of a vacation is coming home. The house is a mess, you need to unpack everything, do laundry, return emails and get ready to go back to work. Instead of jumping right back into everyday life, devote the day after vacation to reacclimating to the real world. Do all the return-home chores, catch up on TV shows and savor your last moments of vacation bliss.



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    Lights illuminate the Christmas Fair in front of the Mariendom (Cathedral of Mary), left, and St. Severi's Church in Erfurt, central Germany, Wednesday, Nov. 28, 2012. The words read: 'Christmas Fair'. The Erfurt Christmas Market is one of the most beautiful Christmas Markets in Germany. The square is decorated with a huge, candle-lit Christmas tree and a large, hand-carved nativity scene. (AP Photo/Jens Meyer)




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  • Berlin, Germany


    Cabins decorated with Christmas motivs hang from a ferris wheel at the annual Christmas market at Alexanderplatz two days after the market opened on November 28, 2012 in Berlin, Germany. (Photo by Sean Gallup/Getty Images)




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    A vendor sells Christmas stars on the first day of the Christmas Market near the city hall in Berlin, Monday, Nov. 26, 2012. (AP Photo/Markus Schreiber)




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    BERLIN, GERMANY - NOVEMBER 26: Visitors look at Christmas decorations for sale at the Kaethe Wohlfahrt stand. (Photo by Sean Gallup/Getty Images)




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  • Dresden, Germany


    Visitors of the so-called Striezelmarkt crowd the Christmas market just after its opening on November 28, 2012 in Dresden, eastern Germany. (ROBERT MICHAEL/AFP/Getty Images)




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    Decorative 'Dresdner Christstollen' christmas cake are on sale after the opening at the Striezelmarkt, Christmas market just after its opening on November 28, 2012 in Dresden, eastern Germany. Visitors of the Christmas market can buy the traditional Striezel or Stollen fruit loaf, hot punch, gingerbread and craftwork at around 240 market stands up to Christmas Eve. Striezel (or Stollen), a fruit loaf made of yeast dough, almonds, raisins and other ingredients, is a culinary specialty of the eastern German town. (ROBERT MICHAEL/AFP/Getty Images)




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    Dresden's landmark the Church of Our Lady (Frauenkirche, L) can be seen behind a christmas pyramid at the Striezelmarkt. (ROBERT MICHAEL/AFP/Getty Images)




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    Choral singers walk at the Striezelmarkt. (ROBERT MICHAEL/AFP/Getty Images)




  • Frankfurt, Germany


    Heart-shaped biscuits on sale at the Christmas market on its opening day on November 26, 2012 in Frankfurt, Germany. (Photo by Hannelore Foerster/Getty Images)




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    Hundreds of people gather in the rain to attend the opening of the traditional Christmas Market on the Roemerberg square in Frankfurt, Monday, Nov. 26, 2012. (AP Photo/Michael Probst)




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    The annual Christmas market illuminated in the city center on its opening day on November 26, 2012. (Photo by Hannelore Foerster/Getty Images)




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  • Strasbourg, France


    People walk around a giant Christmas tree in Strasbourg, eastern France on the opening day of the city's Christmas market, the largest and one of the eldest French Christmas markets. With over 300 market chalets, Strasbourg attracts over 1.6 million visitors during the Christmas season. (PATRICK HERTZOG/AFP/Getty Images)




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